One of the MAJOR STEPS on the Spiritual Path is Forgiveness – in fact it is impossible not to go into a state of forgiveness and walk this path of light.
“90% of our problems would disappear if we just forgave our earthly mother and earthly father.”
– Yogi Bhajan (the master of Kundalini Yoga)
You may say that you do not have issues with your earthly mother or earthy father and you do not think about them much. This wound plays out in ways that you do not realize – beneath the surface at the subconscious level. You will play this out with people in positions of authority – your boss, supervisor and even your spouse. You will play this out with people who you perceive as having more power than you – the captain of your sports team, band leader, any person who is the leader of a group that you belong.
Some thing will happen in the relationship dynamic and this wound will come to the surface leaving you feeling small, angry and disempowered. It really isn’t about the actual person, it is about any unresolved issues with your the earthly mother and earthly father. We are entering the Age of Truth, the Aquarian Age, and all of these wounds need to come to the surface so that they can be healed. A wound will not heal unless it is first exposed the light and air.
When we are born, our first teacher is our mother and the second teacher is our Father.
What is the correct role of the Father?
Protection – The strength of his electromagnetic field (aura) protects the family and provides security.
Values – He teaches you values and virtues.
Manifestation – He teaches you how to make your way in the world – how to manifest money – take care of yourself materially.
Move through Time & Space – He teaches you how to penetrate through time and space so that you can do your destiny with a smile.
Achieve Goals – He gives you the strength, grit and discipline you need in life to achieve your goals. The father gives you the confidence and self-esteem to walk this path with dignity.
Any blocks we have around manifesting money, career, or taking care of ourselves materially goes back to issues with the earthly father. In the Piscean age, most fathers were not present in the home – physically or emotionally and perhaps were children themselves. Most of us have experienced the pain and grief of the abandonment of the father and have felt betrayed by the lack of healthy male role models in the world.
Yogi Bhajan also said that it our divine right to transfer our security from our earthly father and earthly mother to our Divine Mother and Heavenly Father.
In the Aquarian Age (2012), everything that we need is already inside of us. It is the archetypal energy of the Heavenly Father that we connect with to manifest our earthly security and protection. Then we begin to give to ourselves what we did not receive from our earthy father. We give ourselves the grit, stamina and discipline to move through all the resistances in life with a smile. We give to ourselves the self-confidence and self-esteem to go after our goals and do our destiny.
When we transfer our security over in this way, we remove our earthly father from GOD status – a position he could never live up to.
Forgiveness is an acceptance of the past. Forgiveness is to accept that your earthly father did the best he could with what he had. Forgiveness is to acknowledge that you did the best you could with what you had. With forgiveness, you call back all your energy from the past so that you can create in the present. One of the greatest acts of self-love is forgiveness – not a favor we do for someone else, but a precious gift we give to ourselves.